Kalifornia
@skalifornia.bsky.social
A gentle, sweet & romantic woman loving her dresses, skirts, high heels & life in general.
Proud of who I am, and with a positive attitude... 🏳️🌈
Proud of who I am, and with a positive attitude... 🏳️🌈
Good morning everyone, wishing you a happy Wednesday *smiles*
Today's thought: Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is a promise of things to come, but today is here and present. A present is a gift, so smile, be happy at your gift and make the most if it before it too fades into the past...
Today's thought: Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is a promise of things to come, but today is here and present. A present is a gift, so smile, be happy at your gift and make the most if it before it too fades into the past...
September 16, 2026 at 7:51 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a happy Wednesday *smiles*
Today's thought: Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is a promise of things to come, but today is here and present. A present is a gift, so smile, be happy at your gift and make the most if it before it too fades into the past...
Today's thought: Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is a promise of things to come, but today is here and present. A present is a gift, so smile, be happy at your gift and make the most if it before it too fades into the past...
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a terrific Tuesday *smiles*
TFTD: Not every day goes smoothly, sometimes it's like climbing a mountain and others like your careering down a steep slope. But in between we get those level places that we are aiming for. Those do get more regular, I promise...
TFTD: Not every day goes smoothly, sometimes it's like climbing a mountain and others like your careering down a steep slope. But in between we get those level places that we are aiming for. Those do get more regular, I promise...
September 15, 2026 at 7:32 AM
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a terrific Tuesday *smiles*
TFTD: Not every day goes smoothly, sometimes it's like climbing a mountain and others like your careering down a steep slope. But in between we get those level places that we are aiming for. Those do get more regular, I promise...
TFTD: Not every day goes smoothly, sometimes it's like climbing a mountain and others like your careering down a steep slope. But in between we get those level places that we are aiming for. Those do get more regular, I promise...
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a marvellous Monday *smiles*
Today's thought; Never stop making wishes, some of them do come true...
Today's thought; Never stop making wishes, some of them do come true...
September 14, 2026 at 8:36 AM
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a marvellous Monday *smiles*
Today's thought; Never stop making wishes, some of them do come true...
Today's thought; Never stop making wishes, some of them do come true...
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely relaxing day *smiles*
Today's thought: Restless night consequences... *sighs*
Today's thought: Restless night consequences... *sighs*
September 13, 2026 at 8:37 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely relaxing day *smiles*
Today's thought: Restless night consequences... *sighs*
Today's thought: Restless night consequences... *sighs*
Seeing Jay on my feed always brightens the day, this is just a single example… *smiles*
Today I went to this ruined old castle and I was walking around the outside and I saw this tiny little archway in the wall.
So obviously I got down on my belly and crawled through the hole...
So obviously I got down on my belly and crawled through the hole...
September 12, 2026 at 3:27 PM
Seeing Jay on my feed always brightens the day, this is just a single example… *smiles*
Good morning everyone wishing you a lovely Saturday and wonderful weekend *smiles*
Today's thought: If it's been one of those weeks, or even if it hasn't, you are allowed to just relax and do nothing this weekend, and not feel guilty for doing so...
Today's thought: If it's been one of those weeks, or even if it hasn't, you are allowed to just relax and do nothing this weekend, and not feel guilty for doing so...
September 12, 2026 at 4:53 AM
Good morning everyone wishing you a lovely Saturday and wonderful weekend *smiles*
Today's thought: If it's been one of those weeks, or even if it hasn't, you are allowed to just relax and do nothing this weekend, and not feel guilty for doing so...
Today's thought: If it's been one of those weeks, or even if it hasn't, you are allowed to just relax and do nothing this weekend, and not feel guilty for doing so...
This is one of the best threads on PTSD you will read…
A Thread on PTSD:
I was a firefighter and paramedic in some form or other for 25 years before I retired in 2023 to move on to the next chapter of my life. I started as a volunteer in the ’90s and retired as a Captain and Deputy Chief of Rescue and EMS.
I was a firefighter and paramedic in some form or other for 25 years before I retired in 2023 to move on to the next chapter of my life. I started as a volunteer in the ’90s and retired as a Captain and Deputy Chief of Rescue and EMS.
September 12, 2026 at 4:34 AM
This is one of the best threads on PTSD you will read…
Good morning everyone, wishing you a fabulous Friday *smiles*
TFTD: It's okay to be different, it's okay to not follow everyone else and go your own way. Our goals and destinations are not the same, so follow your own path and be delighted at the experiences and sights you see along the way...
TFTD: It's okay to be different, it's okay to not follow everyone else and go your own way. Our goals and destinations are not the same, so follow your own path and be delighted at the experiences and sights you see along the way...
September 11, 2026 at 6:36 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a fabulous Friday *smiles*
TFTD: It's okay to be different, it's okay to not follow everyone else and go your own way. Our goals and destinations are not the same, so follow your own path and be delighted at the experiences and sights you see along the way...
TFTD: It's okay to be different, it's okay to not follow everyone else and go your own way. Our goals and destinations are not the same, so follow your own path and be delighted at the experiences and sights you see along the way...
A 🧵 On Suicide Prevention:
Every 40 seconds, someone somewhere dies by suicide.
Today is World Suicide Prevention Day.
There have been two times in my life when I suddenly “disappeared” from my daily life for a while. The first was more than 20 years ago.
Every 40 seconds, someone somewhere dies by suicide.
Today is World Suicide Prevention Day.
There have been two times in my life when I suddenly “disappeared” from my daily life for a while. The first was more than 20 years ago.
September 10, 2026 at 6:23 PM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely Thursday *smiles*
Today's thought; I'm just me.
It makes life so much easier, no stories I need to keep filed away depending on who I am with, no getting things mixed up. I'm just me.
Be you, life is too short for pretending to be someone else.. *smiles*
Today's thought; I'm just me.
It makes life so much easier, no stories I need to keep filed away depending on who I am with, no getting things mixed up. I'm just me.
Be you, life is too short for pretending to be someone else.. *smiles*
September 10, 2026 at 8:32 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely Thursday *smiles*
Today's thought; I'm just me.
It makes life so much easier, no stories I need to keep filed away depending on who I am with, no getting things mixed up. I'm just me.
Be you, life is too short for pretending to be someone else.. *smiles*
Today's thought; I'm just me.
It makes life so much easier, no stories I need to keep filed away depending on who I am with, no getting things mixed up. I'm just me.
Be you, life is too short for pretending to be someone else.. *smiles*
Good morning everyone, wishing you a happy Wednesday *smiles*
Today's thought: The world seems to be rushing around us, and that can cause our equilibrium to feel all out of kilter. So slow down, smell the flowers, savour your tea or coffee, and enjoy the little things around us...
Today's thought: The world seems to be rushing around us, and that can cause our equilibrium to feel all out of kilter. So slow down, smell the flowers, savour your tea or coffee, and enjoy the little things around us...
September 9, 2026 at 7:51 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a happy Wednesday *smiles*
Today's thought: The world seems to be rushing around us, and that can cause our equilibrium to feel all out of kilter. So slow down, smell the flowers, savour your tea or coffee, and enjoy the little things around us...
Today's thought: The world seems to be rushing around us, and that can cause our equilibrium to feel all out of kilter. So slow down, smell the flowers, savour your tea or coffee, and enjoy the little things around us...
Good morning everyone, wishing you a terrific Tuesday *smiles*
Today's thought: The only persons permission you will ever need is your own. So don't hold back, allow yourself to bloom as the beautiful person you are... *smiles*
Today's thought: The only persons permission you will ever need is your own. So don't hold back, allow yourself to bloom as the beautiful person you are... *smiles*
September 8, 2026 at 8:30 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a terrific Tuesday *smiles*
Today's thought: The only persons permission you will ever need is your own. So don't hold back, allow yourself to bloom as the beautiful person you are... *smiles*
Today's thought: The only persons permission you will ever need is your own. So don't hold back, allow yourself to bloom as the beautiful person you are... *smiles*
Good morning everyone, wishing you a marvellous Monday *smiles*
Today's thought: Mindset is everything, and changes everything...
Today's thought: Mindset is everything, and changes everything...
September 7, 2026 at 8:13 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a marvellous Monday *smiles*
Today's thought: Mindset is everything, and changes everything...
Today's thought: Mindset is everything, and changes everything...
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a lovely relaxing Sunday *smiles*
Today's thought: A little self-care is essential (just your periodic reminder !!), so be kind to yourself and may you find the inner peace you are searching for. If you already have it, then may it increase beyong imagination
Today's thought: A little self-care is essential (just your periodic reminder !!), so be kind to yourself and may you find the inner peace you are searching for. If you already have it, then may it increase beyong imagination
September 6, 2026 at 9:14 AM
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a lovely relaxing Sunday *smiles*
Today's thought: A little self-care is essential (just your periodic reminder !!), so be kind to yourself and may you find the inner peace you are searching for. If you already have it, then may it increase beyong imagination
Today's thought: A little self-care is essential (just your periodic reminder !!), so be kind to yourself and may you find the inner peace you are searching for. If you already have it, then may it increase beyong imagination
Reposted by Kalifornia
I am sharing this because I do think it's important for people to actually see the nature of this violence, and specifically the intentional, misogynistic degradation.
Content warning:
Multiple men violently assault a female protester at Reform's conference at the Birmingham NEC, to the visible delight of Nigel Farage.
Multiple men violently assault a female protester at Reform's conference at the Birmingham NEC, to the visible delight of Nigel Farage.
September 5, 2026 at 11:47 AM
I am sharing this because I do think it's important for people to actually see the nature of this violence, and specifically the intentional, misogynistic degradation.
Good morning everyone, wishing you a super Saturday and a wonderful weekend *smiles*
Today's thought: Always be the badass !!
Today's thought: Always be the badass !!
September 5, 2026 at 5:34 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a super Saturday and a wonderful weekend *smiles*
Today's thought: Always be the badass !!
Today's thought: Always be the badass !!
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a fabulous Friday and a wonderful weekend *smiles*
Today's thought: When you think about it, every day is a new opportunity to begin again. A new dawn in a new era if you so choose to take the opportunity...
I wonder what we'll write today ? *smiles*
Today's thought: When you think about it, every day is a new opportunity to begin again. A new dawn in a new era if you so choose to take the opportunity...
I wonder what we'll write today ? *smiles*
September 4, 2026 at 8:16 AM
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a fabulous Friday and a wonderful weekend *smiles*
Today's thought: When you think about it, every day is a new opportunity to begin again. A new dawn in a new era if you so choose to take the opportunity...
I wonder what we'll write today ? *smiles*
Today's thought: When you think about it, every day is a new opportunity to begin again. A new dawn in a new era if you so choose to take the opportunity...
I wonder what we'll write today ? *smiles*
Reposted by Kalifornia
I love the dedication in My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinhem
September 3, 2026 at 10:28 AM
I love the dedication in My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinhem
Keep on following me for more great advice... *smiles sweetly*
September 3, 2026 at 7:20 PM
Keep on following me for more great advice... *smiles sweetly*
Reposted by Kalifornia
Without Gloria Steinem and other brave pioneers like her, I may not be here as a queer unmarried female reproductive endocrinologist in a fertility and sexual health clinic.
Rest In Power, Ms. We'll take the fight from here.
www.reuters.com/world/femini...
Rest In Power, Ms. We'll take the fight from here.
www.reuters.com/world/femini...
Feminist activist Gloria Steinem dies at age 92
Gloria Steinem, the American writer, lecturer, activist and organizer who fought for gender equality and women's civil and reproductive rights for more than five decades, has died, her foundation said...
www.reuters.com
September 3, 2026 at 1:17 PM
Without Gloria Steinem and other brave pioneers like her, I may not be here as a queer unmarried female reproductive endocrinologist in a fertility and sexual health clinic.
Rest In Power, Ms. We'll take the fight from here.
www.reuters.com/world/femini...
Rest In Power, Ms. We'll take the fight from here.
www.reuters.com/world/femini...
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely Thursday *smiles*
Today's thought: Some friends are more than just friends, they bring peacefulness, they bring happiness, and they bring just themselves with no burden of expectation.
When you find that friend, keep them close because they are priceless
Today's thought: Some friends are more than just friends, they bring peacefulness, they bring happiness, and they bring just themselves with no burden of expectation.
When you find that friend, keep them close because they are priceless
September 3, 2026 at 8:08 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely Thursday *smiles*
Today's thought: Some friends are more than just friends, they bring peacefulness, they bring happiness, and they bring just themselves with no burden of expectation.
When you find that friend, keep them close because they are priceless
Today's thought: Some friends are more than just friends, they bring peacefulness, they bring happiness, and they bring just themselves with no burden of expectation.
When you find that friend, keep them close because they are priceless
Just sharing... *grins*
September 2, 2026 at 4:57 PM
Just sharing... *grins*
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a wonderful day *smiles*
Today's thought: Over the years I've learned to change my boundaries. They aren't a line in the sand, and never will be, but these ones have made life a lot simpler and easier for me. Obviously, there's exceptions for some people... Xx
Today's thought: Over the years I've learned to change my boundaries. They aren't a line in the sand, and never will be, but these ones have made life a lot simpler and easier for me. Obviously, there's exceptions for some people... Xx
September 2, 2026 at 8:28 AM
Good morning everyone, I hope you have a wonderful day *smiles*
Today's thought: Over the years I've learned to change my boundaries. They aren't a line in the sand, and never will be, but these ones have made life a lot simpler and easier for me. Obviously, there's exceptions for some people... Xx
Today's thought: Over the years I've learned to change my boundaries. They aren't a line in the sand, and never will be, but these ones have made life a lot simpler and easier for me. Obviously, there's exceptions for some people... Xx
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely Tuesday and a spectacular month of September *smiles*
Today's thought: A new month, a chance for a new start, also a chance to thank yourself for pushing through anything that has been difficult. Applaud yourself and be proud of you... 💜
Today's thought: A new month, a chance for a new start, also a chance to thank yourself for pushing through anything that has been difficult. Applaud yourself and be proud of you... 💜
September 1, 2026 at 7:42 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a lovely Tuesday and a spectacular month of September *smiles*
Today's thought: A new month, a chance for a new start, also a chance to thank yourself for pushing through anything that has been difficult. Applaud yourself and be proud of you... 💜
Today's thought: A new month, a chance for a new start, also a chance to thank yourself for pushing through anything that has been difficult. Applaud yourself and be proud of you... 💜
Good morning everyone, wishing you a marvellous Monday *smiles*
TFTD: Someone accuses you of being different ?
Nod and smile. You are different,. You are unique and it's that uniqueness that make you the incredible person you are. Celebrate it, not conform to what others think you should be...
TFTD: Someone accuses you of being different ?
Nod and smile. You are different,. You are unique and it's that uniqueness that make you the incredible person you are. Celebrate it, not conform to what others think you should be...
August 31, 2026 at 5:32 AM
Good morning everyone, wishing you a marvellous Monday *smiles*
TFTD: Someone accuses you of being different ?
Nod and smile. You are different,. You are unique and it's that uniqueness that make you the incredible person you are. Celebrate it, not conform to what others think you should be...
TFTD: Someone accuses you of being different ?
Nod and smile. You are different,. You are unique and it's that uniqueness that make you the incredible person you are. Celebrate it, not conform to what others think you should be...