(10/19/21) #Delafina777-games #Delafina777-gender
Never fucking fails: any time you talk about a harasser, an abusive boss, a toxic coworker, etc. a man will show up to try to shut down the conversation by claiming said person is a good person because they were nice to HIM.
Never fucking fails: any time you talk about a harasser, an abusive boss, a toxic coworker, etc. a man will show up to try to shut down the conversation by claiming said person is a good person because they were nice to HIM.
December 23, 2024 at 5:50 AM
(10/19/21) #Delafina777-games #Delafina777-gender
Never fucking fails: any time you talk about a harasser, an abusive boss, a toxic coworker, etc. a man will show up to try to shut down the conversation by claiming said person is a good person because they were nice to HIM.
Never fucking fails: any time you talk about a harasser, an abusive boss, a toxic coworker, etc. a man will show up to try to shut down the conversation by claiming said person is a good person because they were nice to HIM.
(3/7/17) #Delafina777-games #Delafina777-gender
In addition to inheriting sexist, racist DNA from its literary inspirations, the TTRPG community still has a strong insider vs outsider mentality.
Its founding myth is that of the persecuted geek who found friends and refuge in tabletop gaming.
In addition to inheriting sexist, racist DNA from its literary inspirations, the TTRPG community still has a strong insider vs outsider mentality.
Its founding myth is that of the persecuted geek who found friends and refuge in tabletop gaming.
December 20, 2024 at 5:53 AM
(3/7/17) #Delafina777-games #Delafina777-gender
In addition to inheriting sexist, racist DNA from its literary inspirations, the TTRPG community still has a strong insider vs outsider mentality.
Its founding myth is that of the persecuted geek who found friends and refuge in tabletop gaming.
In addition to inheriting sexist, racist DNA from its literary inspirations, the TTRPG community still has a strong insider vs outsider mentality.
Its founding myth is that of the persecuted geek who found friends and refuge in tabletop gaming.
(8/7/23) #Delafina777-Christianity #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
Boomer feminists rail abt barbaric treatment of women in Muslim countries while living in Christian country where doctors reassure men that, in repairing their wives’ bodies from childbirth, they’ve added a husband stitch
Boomer feminists rail abt barbaric treatment of women in Muslim countries while living in Christian country where doctors reassure men that, in repairing their wives’ bodies from childbirth, they’ve added a husband stitch
December 21, 2024 at 5:33 AM
(8/7/23) #Delafina777-Christianity #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
Boomer feminists rail abt barbaric treatment of women in Muslim countries while living in Christian country where doctors reassure men that, in repairing their wives’ bodies from childbirth, they’ve added a husband stitch
Boomer feminists rail abt barbaric treatment of women in Muslim countries while living in Christian country where doctors reassure men that, in repairing their wives’ bodies from childbirth, they’ve added a husband stitch
(7/13/23) #Delafina777-gender #Delafina777-cats
hating cats continues to be an excellent sign that a man has issues around boundaries and consent (because this is Twitter: there’s a difference between not wanting a particular type of pet and actively hating it)
hating cats continues to be an excellent sign that a man has issues around boundaries and consent (because this is Twitter: there’s a difference between not wanting a particular type of pet and actively hating it)
December 21, 2024 at 4:57 AM
(7/13/23) #Delafina777-gender #Delafina777-cats
hating cats continues to be an excellent sign that a man has issues around boundaries and consent (because this is Twitter: there’s a difference between not wanting a particular type of pet and actively hating it)
hating cats continues to be an excellent sign that a man has issues around boundaries and consent (because this is Twitter: there’s a difference between not wanting a particular type of pet and actively hating it)
(11/30/16) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender #Delafina777-Christianity
Thinking abt people doubling down when told they said racist/misogynist/homophobic/otherwise problematic.
And I honestly think, at least in America, it's got something visceral to do with Christian notions of sin.
Thinking abt people doubling down when told they said racist/misogynist/homophobic/otherwise problematic.
And I honestly think, at least in America, it's got something visceral to do with Christian notions of sin.
December 20, 2024 at 4:48 AM
(11/30/16) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender #Delafina777-Christianity
Thinking abt people doubling down when told they said racist/misogynist/homophobic/otherwise problematic.
And I honestly think, at least in America, it's got something visceral to do with Christian notions of sin.
Thinking abt people doubling down when told they said racist/misogynist/homophobic/otherwise problematic.
And I honestly think, at least in America, it's got something visceral to do with Christian notions of sin.
(8/24/22)
#Delafina777-cats #Delafina777-gender
Lol some rando was like “says the lonely childless cat lady who only has her 3 cats in her life” and
EXCUSE ME
I also have all my friends’ cats and dogs in my life
#Delafina777-cats #Delafina777-gender
Lol some rando was like “says the lonely childless cat lady who only has her 3 cats in her life” and
EXCUSE ME
I also have all my friends’ cats and dogs in my life
December 20, 2024 at 1:36 AM
(8/24/22)
#Delafina777-cats #Delafina777-gender
Lol some rando was like “says the lonely childless cat lady who only has her 3 cats in her life” and
EXCUSE ME
I also have all my friends’ cats and dogs in my life
#Delafina777-cats #Delafina777-gender
Lol some rando was like “says the lonely childless cat lady who only has her 3 cats in her life” and
EXCUSE ME
I also have all my friends’ cats and dogs in my life
(5/24/23) #Delafina777-gender #Delafina777-politics
Wonder if people from across the political, orientation, & gender spectrums all get mad at ace people for existing bc our existence challenges the idea that sexuality is inherent to humanity & that idea is their bulwark vs inherited Puritan shame.
Wonder if people from across the political, orientation, & gender spectrums all get mad at ace people for existing bc our existence challenges the idea that sexuality is inherent to humanity & that idea is their bulwark vs inherited Puritan shame.
December 21, 2024 at 12:37 AM
(5/24/23) #Delafina777-gender #Delafina777-politics
Wonder if people from across the political, orientation, & gender spectrums all get mad at ace people for existing bc our existence challenges the idea that sexuality is inherent to humanity & that idea is their bulwark vs inherited Puritan shame.
Wonder if people from across the political, orientation, & gender spectrums all get mad at ace people for existing bc our existence challenges the idea that sexuality is inherent to humanity & that idea is their bulwark vs inherited Puritan shame.
(6/20/22)
#Delafina777-gender
Just read a woman tell another (who was talking about a dude insisting on arguing in her DMs under the "educate me!" banner):
"Sounds like he wants your time, not your perspective."
And it's the most accurate summation of the way men engage w women I've seen yet.
#Delafina777-gender
Just read a woman tell another (who was talking about a dude insisting on arguing in her DMs under the "educate me!" banner):
"Sounds like he wants your time, not your perspective."
And it's the most accurate summation of the way men engage w women I've seen yet.
December 20, 2024 at 1:32 AM
(6/20/22)
#Delafina777-gender
Just read a woman tell another (who was talking about a dude insisting on arguing in her DMs under the "educate me!" banner):
"Sounds like he wants your time, not your perspective."
And it's the most accurate summation of the way men engage w women I've seen yet.
#Delafina777-gender
Just read a woman tell another (who was talking about a dude insisting on arguing in her DMs under the "educate me!" banner):
"Sounds like he wants your time, not your perspective."
And it's the most accurate summation of the way men engage w women I've seen yet.
(3/1/17 - sadly more relevant than ever) #Delafina777-games #Delafina777-gender
So I tweeted out a Q to game writers about what they wish others knew about how game writing is different from writing for other media.
I was asking for technical answers. Like how interactive narratives is different.
So I tweeted out a Q to game writers about what they wish others knew about how game writing is different from writing for other media.
I was asking for technical answers. Like how interactive narratives is different.
December 20, 2024 at 5:48 AM
(3/1/17 - sadly more relevant than ever) #Delafina777-games #Delafina777-gender
So I tweeted out a Q to game writers about what they wish others knew about how game writing is different from writing for other media.
I was asking for technical answers. Like how interactive narratives is different.
So I tweeted out a Q to game writers about what they wish others knew about how game writing is different from writing for other media.
I was asking for technical answers. Like how interactive narratives is different.
(2/13/23 re a now-vanished article on The Male Loneliness Epidemic) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
The article notes that ace people exist & is like “so people who don’t want more sex MAY exist but even those who don’t want more sex should try to be less apathetic about sex,” and
what?
The article notes that ace people exist & is like “so people who don’t want more sex MAY exist but even those who don’t want more sex should try to be less apathetic about sex,” and
what?
December 20, 2024 at 7:47 PM
(2/13/23 re a now-vanished article on The Male Loneliness Epidemic) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
The article notes that ace people exist & is like “so people who don’t want more sex MAY exist but even those who don’t want more sex should try to be less apathetic about sex,” and
what?
The article notes that ace people exist & is like “so people who don’t want more sex MAY exist but even those who don’t want more sex should try to be less apathetic about sex,” and
what?
(6/29/16) #Delafina777-gender
People's incredulous indignation at the idea of Jessica Rabbit as asexual says SOOOOO much about the way our culture views women.
A woman's looks may affect other people's probable level of desire for her, but they have nothing to do with hers for them.
People's incredulous indignation at the idea of Jessica Rabbit as asexual says SOOOOO much about the way our culture views women.
A woman's looks may affect other people's probable level of desire for her, but they have nothing to do with hers for them.
December 20, 2024 at 5:08 AM
(6/29/16) #Delafina777-gender
People's incredulous indignation at the idea of Jessica Rabbit as asexual says SOOOOO much about the way our culture views women.
A woman's looks may affect other people's probable level of desire for her, but they have nothing to do with hers for them.
People's incredulous indignation at the idea of Jessica Rabbit as asexual says SOOOOO much about the way our culture views women.
A woman's looks may affect other people's probable level of desire for her, but they have nothing to do with hers for them.
(11/29/16) #Delafina777-SFF #Delafina777-gender
Fine, people who are all "Patrick Rothfuss sexist wha...? How do?" I'm not going to individually guide each of you. Starting points:
Detailed, patient explanation of sexism in The Wise Man's Fear: questionthequestioner.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-...
Fine, people who are all "Patrick Rothfuss sexist wha...? How do?" I'm not going to individually guide each of you. Starting points:
Detailed, patient explanation of sexism in The Wise Man's Fear: questionthequestioner.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-...
The Wise Man's Fear - Patrick Rothfuss and institutional sexism
A blog about feminism, the portrayal of women, climate change, taxes, storytelling and stuff like that...
questionthequestioner.blogspot.com
December 20, 2024 at 4:55 AM
(11/29/16) #Delafina777-SFF #Delafina777-gender
Fine, people who are all "Patrick Rothfuss sexist wha...? How do?" I'm not going to individually guide each of you. Starting points:
Detailed, patient explanation of sexism in The Wise Man's Fear: questionthequestioner.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-...
Fine, people who are all "Patrick Rothfuss sexist wha...? How do?" I'm not going to individually guide each of you. Starting points:
Detailed, patient explanation of sexism in The Wise Man's Fear: questionthequestioner.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-...
(8/25/22)
#Delafina777-gender
reminder: we have the term "spinster" because spinning was a lucrative enough business that women who got into it could support themselves and choose not to marry
so of course we had to come up with the idea that it was a sad and lonely and undesirable thing to be
#Delafina777-gender
reminder: we have the term "spinster" because spinning was a lucrative enough business that women who got into it could support themselves and choose not to marry
so of course we had to come up with the idea that it was a sad and lonely and undesirable thing to be
December 20, 2024 at 1:33 AM
(8/25/22)
#Delafina777-gender
reminder: we have the term "spinster" because spinning was a lucrative enough business that women who got into it could support themselves and choose not to marry
so of course we had to come up with the idea that it was a sad and lonely and undesirable thing to be
#Delafina777-gender
reminder: we have the term "spinster" because spinning was a lucrative enough business that women who got into it could support themselves and choose not to marry
so of course we had to come up with the idea that it was a sad and lonely and undesirable thing to be
#Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender (the Asshole Genius)
December 21, 2024 at 2:24 AM
#Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender (the Asshole Genius)
(12/22/16) #Delafina777-gender
Reminder: If someone responds to your lack of "respect" with violence (whether physical or verbal), there's a 99% chance they meant "submissiveness" rather than "respect."
Toxic-masculine men love to play on the double-meaning of "respect":
Reminder: If someone responds to your lack of "respect" with violence (whether physical or verbal), there's a 99% chance they meant "submissiveness" rather than "respect."
Toxic-masculine men love to play on the double-meaning of "respect":
December 20, 2024 at 4:42 AM
(12/22/16) #Delafina777-gender
Reminder: If someone responds to your lack of "respect" with violence (whether physical or verbal), there's a 99% chance they meant "submissiveness" rather than "respect."
Toxic-masculine men love to play on the double-meaning of "respect":
Reminder: If someone responds to your lack of "respect" with violence (whether physical or verbal), there's a 99% chance they meant "submissiveness" rather than "respect."
Toxic-masculine men love to play on the double-meaning of "respect":
December 20, 2024 at 1:52 AM
(5/24/23) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
I can’t tell if white men say things with their whole chest and then, as soon as there’s pushback, are like “the things I said don’t reflect my views” because they’re that silly or because they think everyone else is
I can’t tell if white men say things with their whole chest and then, as soon as there’s pushback, are like “the things I said don’t reflect my views” because they’re that silly or because they think everyone else is
December 21, 2024 at 12:34 AM
(5/24/23) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
I can’t tell if white men say things with their whole chest and then, as soon as there’s pushback, are like “the things I said don’t reflect my views” because they’re that silly or because they think everyone else is
I can’t tell if white men say things with their whole chest and then, as soon as there’s pushback, are like “the things I said don’t reflect my views” because they’re that silly or because they think everyone else is
(2/22/17) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
Let's talk about "objectivity" & "neutrality" &the status quo for a moment. If you've been following me for a while, you've heard this, but.
People who don't want the status quo to change paint it not changing as the default, natural position.
Let's talk about "objectivity" & "neutrality" &the status quo for a moment. If you've been following me for a while, you've heard this, but.
People who don't want the status quo to change paint it not changing as the default, natural position.
December 20, 2024 at 5:32 AM
(2/22/17) #Delafina777-politics #Delafina777-gender
Let's talk about "objectivity" & "neutrality" &the status quo for a moment. If you've been following me for a while, you've heard this, but.
People who don't want the status quo to change paint it not changing as the default, natural position.
Let's talk about "objectivity" & "neutrality" &the status quo for a moment. If you've been following me for a while, you've heard this, but.
People who don't want the status quo to change paint it not changing as the default, natural position.
December 21, 2024 at 3:52 AM
#Delafina777-books #Delafina777-gender (men hugging)
December 21, 2024 at 3:44 AM
#Delafina777-books #Delafina777-gender (men hugging)
#Delafina777-history #Delafina777-gender (Spartans)
December 21, 2024 at 3:34 AM
#Delafina777-history #Delafina777-gender (Spartans)
December 21, 2024 at 3:29 AM
December 21, 2024 at 3:26 AM
December 21, 2024 at 3:21 AM