#Femininity
Transphobia *requires* policing women's performance of femininity

Transphobia and feminism are completely incompatible
The thing they say won't happen happened (certainly isn't the first, and won't be the last).

I thought they could always tell, and as the chair of the EHRC put it, "human beings are very good at telling the sex of somebody...we do that on multiple points of information".
Woman with alopecia accused of being male while using female toilet at Tesco
Helen Rowlands said she was questioned about her gender while visiting Tesco Extra in Trinity Square, Gateshead
www.chroniclelive.co.uk
November 8, 2026 at 4:08 PM
Féminité
Femininity
Weiblichkeit
November 11, 2026 at 1:41 PM
Enlightenment is required to understand the femininity of Marathon's Bishop
November 11, 2026 at 2:08 AM
Femininity...
#NoShameNovel
November 5, 2026 at 5:28 AM
(performs femininity all over the metro area) oh geeze sorry guys haha aw it's everywhere gosh my bad
November 9, 2026 at 12:31 PM
It’s not just emasculation but feminization. It’s not just about failing at masculinity but exhibiting femininity.
November 10, 2026 at 7:53 PM
He's comfortable with his femininity
November 10, 2026 at 6:03 AM
Traditional gender roles are an under-discussed part of MAHA ideology. They conflate warped versions of masculinity and femininity with health. That's why the defend rapists and peddle hormones.
MAHA officially comes out in support of convicted rapist, Russell Brand.
November 10, 2026 at 2:22 PM
minimalism is underrated and highlights your femininity
November 10, 2026 at 12:10 AM
a
femininity
that’s curiously
feral
and
tame;
a somevvhat
balanced
dance…✨
November 9, 2026 at 8:33 PM
She also said in an interview that she owes her femininity to trans women and drag queens iirc
November 12, 2026 at 12:05 AM
'Cause quiet as it's kept, "femininity" in gay spaces starts at "as long as I perceive you as less manly than me."

And those who possess what we traditionally perceive as femininity must uphold those expectations in regards to maintenance of body, but still keep it masculine ish?
Well, of course! In some ways, the gay space is THEE epitome of masculine competition / proving manliness.

Add to that the need to impose heteronormative gender roles, and it truly is the perfect storm.
Gay men be having higher standards for men than women do 😵‍💫
November 11, 2026 at 3:09 AM
It's all about upholding white femininity standards, thus protecting whiteness.
It is and has never been about protecting women from abuse.
November 9, 2026 at 9:35 AM
being a sexist is peak femininity
November 11, 2026 at 10:40 AM
The prejudice people have against trans and female masculinities is ultimately about masculinity and not failure to perform femininity. A transmasculine person can perform femininity and still be attacked or harmed because they dared grasp for a label the patriarchy does not want them to have.
November 10, 2026 at 6:43 AM
Femininity is your job now, beta boi.

Sissy life is 24/7..... no breaks, no excuses. Panties, heels, locked clit, plugged hole. Always ready.

This is your new reality. Embrace it, slut.
November 10, 2026 at 1:40 PM
Femininity is your job now, beta boi.

Sissy life is 24/7..... no breaks, no excuses. Panties, heels, locked clit, plugged hole. Always ready.

This is your new reality. Embrace it, slut.
November 12, 2026 at 12:59 AM
Racist white women policing the femininity of Black women is a tactic they have used for generations, specifically for when when Black women dare to occupy spaces these racist white women feel they have a right to decide whether Black women belong

So please, folks, let's be crystal clear about this
The Women’s Rights Network here, saying “you can’t be a woman, you don’t look feminine enough” in a DEFINITELY FEMINIST way.

(Side note: fascinating how all of these athletes transphobes harass over their gender are black women, isn’t it. Definitely nothing worth questioning going on there.)
November 12, 2026 at 7:13 AM
Women globally should look at Nyla Rose and her traps of thirst as a shining example of fucking owning your own femininity.
November 11, 2026 at 12:30 AM
It's because, in their view, the only acceptable femininity is white, and a fairly constrained white femininity at that (like Fox news anchor look-alike).
bsky.app/profile/ianh...
Every TERF is also a racist because the "We can always tell" argument is predicated in a white version of femininity.
The inevitable outcome of the anti trans panic. Gender nonconforming Black women being harassed in bathrooms.
November 7, 2026 at 9:22 PM
just got my femininity appraised by a disgraced jeweler
November 6, 2026 at 2:48 AM
Ugh why is it so hard and scary to move away from a more masc presence to trying to embrace my femininity more in the way I talk and dress :/
November 10, 2026 at 3:43 PM
Femininity is stored in the lower back 🙂‍↕️
November 8, 2026 at 12:49 PM
it will happen to everyone who doesn't neatly fit into a white standard of femininity
November 8, 2026 at 3:21 PM
tentatively think im genderfluid . tentatively. i think im comfortable w my femininity again. ty all. maybe she/her pronouns are fine w me again after like 10 years. okay thanks
November 10, 2026 at 10:11 PM