Dontbethatguy Dontbethatguy Dontbethatguy Dontbethatguy The second season started with Riker having a beard D'OH
May 23, 2024 at 1:57 AM
Dontbethatguy Dontbethatguy Dontbethatguy Dontbethatguy The second season started with Riker having a beard D'OH
My mom came over today and she told me a story that is probably the best thing that I have heard in months. Buckle up for storytime 🧵
SO. My mom knows a man, a bachelor in his sixties. He was travelling with his niece, who is in her thirties. (Their ages will be relevant later). 1/?
SO. My mom knows a man, a bachelor in his sixties. He was travelling with his niece, who is in her thirties. (Their ages will be relevant later). 1/?
December 26, 2024 at 10:26 PM
dontBethatGuy
April 22, 2025 at 8:00 AM
dontBethatGuy
Being racist is expensive
#racist #blacksky #blacktiktok #welp #dontbe #🤷🏻♀️ #🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ #shouldvelistened #dontbethatguy #bluesky #tiktok #karensoftiktok #racistoftheday #politiktok #maga
#racist #blacksky #blacktiktok #welp #dontbe #🤷🏻♀️ #🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ #shouldvelistened #dontbethatguy #bluesky #tiktok #karensoftiktok #racistoftheday #politiktok #maga
July 27, 2025 at 11:51 PM
Being racist is expensive
#racist #blacksky #blacktiktok #welp #dontbe #🤷🏻♀️ #🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ #shouldvelistened #dontbethatguy #bluesky #tiktok #karensoftiktok #racistoftheday #politiktok #maga
#racist #blacksky #blacktiktok #welp #dontbe #🤷🏻♀️ #🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ #shouldvelistened #dontbethatguy #bluesky #tiktok #karensoftiktok #racistoftheday #politiktok #maga
Add to that, mental abuse and coercive control.
Most men would be horrified if they really understood the steps women take, daily, to try and protect ourselves from predators.
The problem is, by no means, all men but the problem is, almost always, men.
#DontBeThatGuy
Most men would be horrified if they really understood the steps women take, daily, to try and protect ourselves from predators.
The problem is, by no means, all men but the problem is, almost always, men.
#DontBeThatGuy
Approximately 1 out of 3 women will experience sexual and/or physical abuse in their lifetime and you still have men claiming that allegations must be false because there are too many of them. It’s actually the opposite. The vast majority allegations will never become public
July 30, 2026 at 3:05 PM
Add to that, mental abuse and coercive control.
Most men would be horrified if they really understood the steps women take, daily, to try and protect ourselves from predators.
The problem is, by no means, all men but the problem is, almost always, men.
#DontBeThatGuy
Most men would be horrified if they really understood the steps women take, daily, to try and protect ourselves from predators.
The problem is, by no means, all men but the problem is, almost always, men.
#DontBeThatGuy
This 👏👏👏
Boys learn how to grow into men by watching the men around them.
Talk about it.
Be an ally.
Be an example.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Boys learn how to grow into men by watching the men around them.
Talk about it.
Be an ally.
Be an example.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Howie Roseman says the #Eagles won't even scout players who have ever been violent with women:
“I won’t even watch them. I don't even want to talk. I can't go 'He’s really good, he did it 10 years ago and he learned from it.” It just doesn't work for us."
#FlyEaglesFly
(🎥: The McShay Show)
“I won’t even watch them. I don't even want to talk. I can't go 'He’s really good, he did it 10 years ago and he learned from it.” It just doesn't work for us."
#FlyEaglesFly
(🎥: The McShay Show)
April 11, 2025 at 8:51 AM
This 👏👏👏
Boys learn how to grow into men by watching the men around them.
Talk about it.
Be an ally.
Be an example.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Boys learn how to grow into men by watching the men around them.
Talk about it.
Be an ally.
Be an example.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
prince of the #dontbethatguy club got nabbed by 3 countries pretty much working together.
September 17, 2026 at 6:41 PM
prince of the #dontbethatguy club got nabbed by 3 countries pretty much working together.
Horrific.
Too many women live with the fear of #DomesticAbuse
Too many women die at the hands of the men who abuse them.
It by no means is all men who are the problem, but the problem almost always is men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Too many women live with the fear of #DomesticAbuse
Too many women die at the hands of the men who abuse them.
It by no means is all men who are the problem, but the problem almost always is men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
The inquest into the death of Claire Collins returned an open verdict, although it was clear she was smothered with a pillow by “a third party”. Her injuries show she fought back.
We owe it to slain women to ask the hard questions, writes Sarah Harte today
www.irishexaminer.com/opinion/colu...
We owe it to slain women to ask the hard questions, writes Sarah Harte today
www.irishexaminer.com/opinion/colu...
Sarah Harte: Why Ireland still fails to learn from domestic homicides — and how we can change that
Ireland urgently needs domestic homicide reviews to learn from preventable partner killings and close gaps in frontline responses
www.irishexaminer.com
April 9, 2025 at 9:02 AM
Horrific.
Too many women live with the fear of #DomesticAbuse
Too many women die at the hands of the men who abuse them.
It by no means is all men who are the problem, but the problem almost always is men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Too many women live with the fear of #DomesticAbuse
Too many women die at the hands of the men who abuse them.
It by no means is all men who are the problem, but the problem almost always is men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Some men hyuck and snigger when faced by misogyny.
Others step forward and stand up.
#FlavaFlav is showing up, and, further down the thread, is a whole wheen of brands offering sponsorship to help the USA #WomensOlympians have a solidarity celebration
#DontBeThatGuy
#BeAnAlly
Others step forward and stand up.
#FlavaFlav is showing up, and, further down the thread, is a whole wheen of brands offering sponsorship to help the USA #WomensOlympians have a solidarity celebration
#DontBeThatGuy
#BeAnAlly
Letz go even bigger and better,,, ALL Female US Olympians and Paralympian medalists are invited out to celebrate in Viva Las Vegas for the SHE GOT GAME Weekend ,,,
Hit a guy up and LETZ GOOO
Hit a guy up and LETZ GOOO
February 25, 2026 at 8:51 AM
Some men hyuck and snigger when faced by misogyny.
Others step forward and stand up.
#FlavaFlav is showing up, and, further down the thread, is a whole wheen of brands offering sponsorship to help the USA #WomensOlympians have a solidarity celebration
#DontBeThatGuy
#BeAnAlly
Others step forward and stand up.
#FlavaFlav is showing up, and, further down the thread, is a whole wheen of brands offering sponsorship to help the USA #WomensOlympians have a solidarity celebration
#DontBeThatGuy
#BeAnAlly
Trump and the MAGA misogynists sniggered and insulted female Olympians
#DontBeThatGuy
Flavor Flav stepped forward and stepped up, offering a Las Vegas weekend to all of the USA Women's Team Olympic and Paralympic medal winners #SheGotGame
My goodness, but this is what being an ally looks like!
#DontBeThatGuy
Flavor Flav stepped forward and stepped up, offering a Las Vegas weekend to all of the USA Women's Team Olympic and Paralympic medal winners #SheGotGame
My goodness, but this is what being an ally looks like!
February 26, 2026 at 6:41 PM
Trump and the MAGA misogynists sniggered and insulted female Olympians
#DontBeThatGuy
Flavor Flav stepped forward and stepped up, offering a Las Vegas weekend to all of the USA Women's Team Olympic and Paralympic medal winners #SheGotGame
My goodness, but this is what being an ally looks like!
#DontBeThatGuy
Flavor Flav stepped forward and stepped up, offering a Las Vegas weekend to all of the USA Women's Team Olympic and Paralympic medal winners #SheGotGame
My goodness, but this is what being an ally looks like!
An important and, sadly, necessary charity for #Women living with the horror of #DomesticAbuse.
It isn't all men who are the perpetrators
But the perpetrators are almost always men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
It isn't all men who are the perpetrators
But the perpetrators are almost always men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Thrilled to be at the @safelives #AuthenticVoice conference today. This event, created & organised by the women of the Authentic Panel is all about embedding lived experience in #Scotland. Looking forward to hearing & learning from these incredible women.
#Survivors #LivedExperience #16Days
#Survivors #LivedExperience #16Days
December 9, 2024 at 10:23 AM
An important and, sadly, necessary charity for #Women living with the horror of #DomesticAbuse.
It isn't all men who are the perpetrators
But the perpetrators are almost always men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
It isn't all men who are the perpetrators
But the perpetrators are almost always men.
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Heute das Thema Sexismus mit dem Ethik-Kurs (10er) bearbeitet. Diese beiden Videos bzw. Kampagnen bieten eine gute Grundlage für Diskussionen:
• youtu.be/sVcu8Hwv8u8?... (Kampagne der Polizei Schottland) #dontbethatguy
• youtu.be/qbk3iJqmjNU?... (Kampagne vom Londoner Bürgermeister) #HaveAWord
• youtu.be/sVcu8Hwv8u8?... (Kampagne der Polizei Schottland) #dontbethatguy
• youtu.be/qbk3iJqmjNU?... (Kampagne vom Londoner Bürgermeister) #HaveAWord
Guys: Do you recognise yourself?
Most guys don’t look in the mirror & see a problem. But it’s staring us in the face. Sexual violence begins long before you think it does.It’s not “just bant...
youtu.be
November 24, 2023 at 9:01 AM
Heute das Thema Sexismus mit dem Ethik-Kurs (10er) bearbeitet. Diese beiden Videos bzw. Kampagnen bieten eine gute Grundlage für Diskussionen:
• youtu.be/sVcu8Hwv8u8?... (Kampagne der Polizei Schottland) #dontbethatguy
• youtu.be/qbk3iJqmjNU?... (Kampagne vom Londoner Bürgermeister) #HaveAWord
• youtu.be/sVcu8Hwv8u8?... (Kampagne der Polizei Schottland) #dontbethatguy
• youtu.be/qbk3iJqmjNU?... (Kampagne vom Londoner Bürgermeister) #HaveAWord
This is your reminder: Put the phone away!
It's disrespectful to have it out.
#phonefree #weddings #photography #dontbethatguy #weddingphotographer #why
It's disrespectful to have it out.
#phonefree #weddings #photography #dontbethatguy #weddingphotographer #why
February 5, 2025 at 6:12 PM
This is your reminder: Put the phone away!
It's disrespectful to have it out.
#phonefree #weddings #photography #dontbethatguy #weddingphotographer #why
It's disrespectful to have it out.
#phonefree #weddings #photography #dontbethatguy #weddingphotographer #why
It's by no means all men who are the problem,
But the problem is almost always men
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
But the problem is almost always men
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
🕯️ Tonight, we remember all the women and children who have died because of domestic abuse.
We must all work together to help eradicate it from society.
Men especially must lend their voices and call out abusive behaviours wherever they see them. #ForThemAll
We must all work together to help eradicate it from society.
Men especially must lend their voices and call out abusive behaviours wherever they see them. #ForThemAll
December 6, 2024 at 4:18 PM
It's by no means all men who are the problem,
But the problem is almost always men
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
But the problem is almost always men
#DontBeThatGuy
#EndMaleViolenceAgainstWomen
Ew, ew, ew.
WTF is wrong with some men?
I am very pleased the part of the internet I occupy meant I had no idea what this was.
Turns out, there's a whole new level of abuse out there.
#DontBeThatGuy
WTF is wrong with some men?
I am very pleased the part of the internet I occupy meant I had no idea what this was.
Turns out, there's a whole new level of abuse out there.
#DontBeThatGuy
UK poised to ban "c*m tributes" in new Crime and Policing Bill. Those posting images will face up to six months in prison.
Campaign win! ‘Semen images’ to be made illegal – following Glamour investigation
The new offence – which includes AI-generated images – carries a maximum sentence of six months’ imprisonment.
www.glamourmagazine.co.uk
February 24, 2026 at 9:14 AM
Ew, ew, ew.
WTF is wrong with some men?
I am very pleased the part of the internet I occupy meant I had no idea what this was.
Turns out, there's a whole new level of abuse out there.
#DontBeThatGuy
WTF is wrong with some men?
I am very pleased the part of the internet I occupy meant I had no idea what this was.
Turns out, there's a whole new level of abuse out there.
#DontBeThatGuy
Most men have no idea of the additional workplace issues which women have to navigate;
What the impact of the stress, the fear, the reality of being predated upon by a colleague or boss is like
#DontBeThatGuy
What the impact of the stress, the fear, the reality of being predated upon by a colleague or boss is like
#DontBeThatGuy
Gift link from the NYT story about Axel and Epstein. When I was at Columbia he ran a lab where sexual harassment of women was business as usual. We all knew. We all warned each other.
www.nytimes.com/2026/02/25/n...
www.nytimes.com/2026/02/25/n...
Leader of Columbia Brain Institute Quits Over Friendship With Epstein
www.nytimes.com
February 26, 2026 at 3:23 PM
Most men have no idea of the additional workplace issues which women have to navigate;
What the impact of the stress, the fear, the reality of being predated upon by a colleague or boss is like
#DontBeThatGuy
What the impact of the stress, the fear, the reality of being predated upon by a colleague or boss is like
#DontBeThatGuy
October 2, 2025 at 1:59 AM
Reviews are for the readers. Don't be weird and go after people for writing them.
#writing #authors #reviews #bookreviews #dontbethatguy #readers
#writing #authors #reviews #bookreviews #dontbethatguy #readers
December 10, 2024 at 8:02 PM
Reviews are for the readers. Don't be weird and go after people for writing them.
#writing #authors #reviews #bookreviews #dontbethatguy #readers
#writing #authors #reviews #bookreviews #dontbethatguy #readers
When I first joined Bluesky and things were so much quieter, I was charmed to see how approachable #NeilGaiman was,
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
Just a reminder to all the new folks that Neil Gaiman has been credibly accused of sexual assault by five different women, and is almost certainly working behind the scenes with his PR firm to bury the story.
Don’t let him. And don’t follow him. More here:
Don’t let him. And don’t follow him. More here:
The New Zealand allegations at the centre of a Neil Gaiman podcast investigation
A report on the facts presented in the podcast that is investigating the allegations against author Neil Gaiman.
thespinoff.co.nz
November 30, 2024 at 3:55 PM
When I first joined Bluesky and things were so much quieter, I was charmed to see how approachable #NeilGaiman was,
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
When I first joined Bluesky and things were so much quieter, I was charmed to see how approachable #NeilGaiman was,
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
a woman in a plaid shirt is sitting on a couch making a funny face .
ALT: a woman in a plaid shirt is sitting on a couch making a funny face .
media.tenor.com
November 30, 2024 at 3:57 PM
When I first joined Bluesky and things were so much quieter, I was charmed to see how approachable #NeilGaiman was,
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
Read lots of lovely supportive threads where he affably chatted about the writing process and fountain pens...
Then his correspondence with the young nanny emerged...
#DontBeThatGuy
Oddly, thousands made it. #DontBeThatGuy
June 18, 2026 at 2:42 PM
Oddly, thousands made it. #DontBeThatGuy
The transphobia version of "well they're nice to me".
I thought the Scottish adverts of "don't be that guy" were effective enough a message not to be that guy.
"It's just banter" = "it's just political calculus"
The intent doesn't matter. Only the impact.
youtu.be/5qfqAIxGmyE
I thought the Scottish adverts of "don't be that guy" were effective enough a message not to be that guy.
"It's just banter" = "it's just political calculus"
The intent doesn't matter. Only the impact.
youtu.be/5qfqAIxGmyE
Speak up and don't be that guy who stays silent - #dontbethatguy
YouTube video by That Guy Scotland
youtu.be
November 21, 2025 at 5:22 PM
The transphobia version of "well they're nice to me".
I thought the Scottish adverts of "don't be that guy" were effective enough a message not to be that guy.
"It's just banter" = "it's just political calculus"
The intent doesn't matter. Only the impact.
youtu.be/5qfqAIxGmyE
I thought the Scottish adverts of "don't be that guy" were effective enough a message not to be that guy.
"It's just banter" = "it's just political calculus"
The intent doesn't matter. Only the impact.
youtu.be/5qfqAIxGmyE
@gabriellehecht.bsky.social, thank you for coining
I Am Not Here For This Conversation.™️
Just used it at the gym. 😠
Dudes, especially OWM, in the words of a friend, #DontBeThatGuy.
I Am Not Here For This Conversation.™️
Just used it at the gym. 😠
Dudes, especially OWM, in the words of a friend, #DontBeThatGuy.
October 7, 2025 at 8:29 PM
@gabriellehecht.bsky.social, thank you for coining
I Am Not Here For This Conversation.™️
Just used it at the gym. 😠
Dudes, especially OWM, in the words of a friend, #DontBeThatGuy.
I Am Not Here For This Conversation.™️
Just used it at the gym. 😠
Dudes, especially OWM, in the words of a friend, #DontBeThatGuy.
When I say not to DM me and your response is to tell me how you want a private chat, I'm going to block you. I may or may not publicly share and shame. You are not entitled to my time. #dontbethatguy
November 27, 2024 at 3:59 PM
When I say not to DM me and your response is to tell me how you want a private chat, I'm going to block you. I may or may not publicly share and shame. You are not entitled to my time. #dontbethatguy