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Brandyfinchcosplay

@brandyfinchcosplay.bsky.social

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Anybody like a fearful avoidant, who is afraid to get hurt but is NOT afraid to hurt you is an absolute and total LOSER. #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #lancemikkel #power #exback

TikTok video by breakupscienceacademy

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October 10, 2026 at 2:19 PM

darkoapp.bsky.social

@darkoapp.bsky.social

Dealing with fearful avoidants

#attachmentstyles #psychologytips #fearfulavoidant #relationshiphacks #emotionalintelligence #manipulationtechniques #attachmenttheory

August 31, 2026 at 5:08 PM

peachvanilla

@peachvanilla.bsky.social

missing him extra today 💔 #situationship #nocontact #anxiousattachment #avoidant #fearfulavoidant

August 26, 2026 at 10:15 PM

tehrinaandjoel.bsky.social

@tehrinaandjoel.bsky.social

Fearful-avoidant attachment = wanting love, then running from it. 💔
In our latest video, we explore what it really looks like—and how healing begins.
Watch Rebecca’s story: youtu.be/7XwCtoveIpg
#attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #pushpull

Fearful-Avoidant Heartbreak: Why Love Feels Unsafe | Therapists Tehrina & Joel

YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC

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May 1, 2025 at 5:34 AM

No Filter Philosophy

@nofilterphilosophy.bsky.social

Most people probably aren’t calculating your emotional downfall, they’re just recreating whatever broken version of love they learned growing up.

#lovebombing #anxiousattachment #fearfulavoidant #generationaltrauma #realtalk #relationships #selfawareness #emotionalintelligence #accountability

September 8, 2025 at 4:06 PM

No Filter Philosophy

@nofilterphilosophy.bsky.social

Fearful avoidants: masters of mixed signals. ‘I want you close, but not too close. Love me, but don’t need me. Stay, but give me space.’ It’s like playing emotional dodgeball—you’re in the game, but no one knows the rules. #nofilterphilosophy #fearfulavoidant #relationshipstruggles

January 17, 2025 at 11:20 PM

Steven with a V

@shadaegh.bsky.social

Fearful avoidant attachment: Craves closeness, but fears getting hurt. It's a push-pull dance of wanting connection, then running when it gets too close. 💔 #attachmenttheory #fearfulavoidant

March 30, 2025 at 12:13 AM

Ranko 🐬

@ranc1.bsky.social

Take an inventory of just how absent you have been from your own life. How frightened are you of being seen or heard, and of causing damage to the other people. Just by you taking part in things and showing up to life.
🔻Echoism
www.youtube.com/watch?v=yjGF...

Echoist are opposite of Narcissists but Attract Narcissist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yjGFO1Qepsk

50 views 19 Jul 2024 #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #narcabuse
For more information check out @theechochamber

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#echoism #avoidantattachment #narcawareness #attachmenttrauma #narcissist #avoidant #traumabond #attachmenttheory #fearfulavoidant #toxicrelationship #narcabuse #narcabusesurvivor

February 19, 2025 at 5:47 PM

_jaimejorge_

@jaimejsoto.bsky.social

i lose a bit of mysellllllfffff
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#FearfulAvoidant #Lust #Overthinker #Trauma #SelfPreservation #lgbtq #Waxahatchie #RightBackToIt #Inspiration

September 26, 2025 at 8:57 AM

Politics of Attachment | Dylan Smeder

@dylansmeder.bsky.social

That deep-seated feeling of #shame that appears when you say no or feel “too vulnerable” is a protection mechanism, learned early to survive unpredictability

For #anxious, #avoidant, or #fearfulavoidant attachers, it can look different

How does it come up in you?
Where do you feel it in your body?

November 7, 2025 at 7:36 PM

Politics of Attachment | Dylan Smeder

@dylansmeder.bsky.social

#Anxious, #Avoidant, and #FearfulAvoidant styles aren’t flaws.

They’re survival strategies — adaptations when needs weren’t met, shaped by systemic oppression.

#AttachmentCommunity #AttachmentTheory

October 2, 2025 at 4:39 PM

Politics of Attachment | Dylan Smeder

@dylansmeder.bsky.social

#FearfulAvoidant attachment often looks like:
• mistrust mixed with longing for intimacy
• push-pull between closeness and distance
• unstable relationship patterns

#AttachmentCommunity #AttachmentTheory #DisorganizedAttachment