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Self-Abandonment: What It Is & How to Heal
What are the signs of self-abandonment and its impact on relationships?
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October 31, 2026 at 11:22 PM
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If you have to change yourself to feel loved by someone, thats self abandonment
Don't do that
Don't do that
October 29, 2026 at 8:38 AM
If you have to change yourself to feel loved by someone, thats self abandonment
Don't do that
Don't do that
It takes strength to swim against the current; courage to speak truthfully against majority opinion; self-esteem to commit to one's own well-being.
Conformity is people-pleasing, aversion to rocking the boat, and self-abandonment.
Don't listen to cowards.
#COVID #MaskUp #N95s
Conformity is people-pleasing, aversion to rocking the boat, and self-abandonment.
Don't listen to cowards.
#COVID #MaskUp #N95s
RFK Jr.: "I was in Los Angeles last week, and I saw people — this is true — driving around wearing masks alone in their car. Still in 2026!”🤦♂️
It’s 2026. People should be able to look after their health without being mocked for it.
#COVIDisNotOver #COVIDisAirborne #MaskUp
It’s 2026. People should be able to look after their health without being mocked for it.
#COVIDisNotOver #COVIDisAirborne #MaskUp
October 31, 2026 at 6:37 AM
Transitioning is not always a complete abandonment of your former self.
You can cherry pick the things about your former self that still resonate with you and integrate it into the aspects of your new self that you love and want to hold on to.
That’s the whole game. That’s what it is.
You can cherry pick the things about your former self that still resonate with you and integrate it into the aspects of your new self that you love and want to hold on to.
That’s the whole game. That’s what it is.
October 29, 2026 at 4:41 PM
Transitioning is not always a complete abandonment of your former self.
You can cherry pick the things about your former self that still resonate with you and integrate it into the aspects of your new self that you love and want to hold on to.
That’s the whole game. That’s what it is.
You can cherry pick the things about your former self that still resonate with you and integrate it into the aspects of your new self that you love and want to hold on to.
That’s the whole game. That’s what it is.
Treating your child in a way that leaves them with abandonment (of both self & others) issues should count as child abuse
October 28, 2026 at 4:59 PM
Treating your child in a way that leaves them with abandonment (of both self & others) issues should count as child abuse
The most common form of loneliness in relationships isn't being misunderstood, it's self-abandonment. And many of us are so used to doing it that we don’t notice when we leave ourselves.
November 2, 2026 at 5:03 PM
The most common form of loneliness in relationships isn't being misunderstood, it's self-abandonment. And many of us are so used to doing it that we don’t notice when we leave ourselves.
Some very strange sexual bonding in public over fealty to Israel with her BF/ fiancé. Its her decision but so self destructive. an abandonment of all professed values just to hold onto - that guy? Seems desperate
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
November 2, 2026 at 2:44 AM
Some very strange sexual bonding in public over fealty to Israel with her BF/ fiancé. Its her decision but so self destructive. an abandonment of all professed values just to hold onto - that guy? Seems desperate
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
Thought it was gathering prospectives to get a full view
Till ppl get to feeling they self & try to be the perspective
Competition
Influence
Compromise
Negotiation
Convince
Persuade
Seeking approving
Abandonment wounds
Lack of critical 🤔
Lack of independent thought
Group 🤔
Dopamine
Till ppl get to feeling they self & try to be the perspective
Competition
Influence
Compromise
Negotiation
Convince
Persuade
Seeking approving
Abandonment wounds
Lack of critical 🤔
Lack of independent thought
Group 🤔
Dopamine
November 2, 2026 at 8:41 PM
Thought it was gathering prospectives to get a full view
Till ppl get to feeling they self & try to be the perspective
Competition
Influence
Compromise
Negotiation
Convince
Persuade
Seeking approving
Abandonment wounds
Lack of critical 🤔
Lack of independent thought
Group 🤔
Dopamine
Till ppl get to feeling they self & try to be the perspective
Competition
Influence
Compromise
Negotiation
Convince
Persuade
Seeking approving
Abandonment wounds
Lack of critical 🤔
Lack of independent thought
Group 🤔
Dopamine
I keep thinking about this book and how wonderful it was to see intersectional feminism, wonder, and anger portrayed in such a physical way. The main character's story arc through her feelings of abandonment and self discovery was well done. I want to write like this someday.
October 29, 2026 at 6:26 PM
I keep thinking about this book and how wonderful it was to see intersectional feminism, wonder, and anger portrayed in such a physical way. The main character's story arc through her feelings of abandonment and self discovery was well done. I want to write like this someday.
On and off T twice previously bc of unresolved baggage and self-abandonment but first dose of round 3 done. Third times the charm?
October 30, 2026 at 12:22 AM
On and off T twice previously bc of unresolved baggage and self-abandonment but first dose of round 3 done. Third times the charm?
Roger Marshall not only gets laughed and hooted outta his recent Town Hall by angry constituents, he responds to the abandonment of Lardass as no matter; as he’s doing so well in the polls.
The Self-Delusion is magnificent!
The Self-Delusion is magnificent!
October 30, 2026 at 3:26 PM
Roger Marshall not only gets laughed and hooted outta his recent Town Hall by angry constituents, he responds to the abandonment of Lardass as no matter; as he’s doing so well in the polls.
The Self-Delusion is magnificent!
The Self-Delusion is magnificent!
Oh, hitting that wall of "self proclaimed NSFW artist does something other than NSFW and develops abandonment issues over it"...
On top of the phone, having to work tonight and still haven't yet slept...
It's just one of those days.
On top of the phone, having to work tonight and still haven't yet slept...
It's just one of those days.
October 30, 2026 at 7:31 PM
Oh, hitting that wall of "self proclaimed NSFW artist does something other than NSFW and develops abandonment issues over it"...
On top of the phone, having to work tonight and still haven't yet slept...
It's just one of those days.
On top of the phone, having to work tonight and still haven't yet slept...
It's just one of those days.
Some very strange sexual bonding in public over fealty to Israel with her BF/ fiancé. Its her decision but so self destructive. an abandonment of all professed values just to hold onto - that guy? Seems desperate
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
November 2, 2026 at 2:43 AM
Some very strange sexual bonding in public over fealty to Israel with her BF/ fiancé. Its her decision but so self destructive. an abandonment of all professed values just to hold onto - that guy? Seems desperate
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
Nothing to do with values or policies- Cant lose her man ?
#AwesomeCharacters
Tiferet is terrified of abandonment; of letting anyone get close enough to know her real self and rejecting her.
Casimir is terrified of failing people who rely on him.
Momoka is deeply afraid of filth. There's a religious aspect to it, but it gets to them particularly hard.
Tiferet is terrified of abandonment; of letting anyone get close enough to know her real self and rejecting her.
Casimir is terrified of failing people who rely on him.
Momoka is deeply afraid of filth. There's a religious aspect to it, but it gets to them particularly hard.
Tell me about your #AwesomeCharacters
What is something that scares your character?
Do they have any phobias?
It could be something existential or something mundane. Whatever gets them anxious.
#WriteSky #WritingCommunity #WritingPrompts
What is something that scares your character?
Do they have any phobias?
It could be something existential or something mundane. Whatever gets them anxious.
#WriteSky #WritingCommunity #WritingPrompts
October 28, 2026 at 12:47 AM
#AwesomeCharacters
Tiferet is terrified of abandonment; of letting anyone get close enough to know her real self and rejecting her.
Casimir is terrified of failing people who rely on him.
Momoka is deeply afraid of filth. There's a religious aspect to it, but it gets to them particularly hard.
Tiferet is terrified of abandonment; of letting anyone get close enough to know her real self and rejecting her.
Casimir is terrified of failing people who rely on him.
Momoka is deeply afraid of filth. There's a religious aspect to it, but it gets to them particularly hard.
November 2 Astrology
✨ Recurring Mystic Rectangles through November 27 highlight relationship healing, self-worth, and authentic expression.
Where are you sacrificing your truth to maintain harmony?
Choose compassion without self-abandonment.
buff.ly/yrP5C4b
✨ Recurring Mystic Rectangles through November 27 highlight relationship healing, self-worth, and authentic expression.
Where are you sacrificing your truth to maintain harmony?
Choose compassion without self-abandonment.
buff.ly/yrP5C4b
November 2, 2026 at 6:01 PM
November 2 Astrology
✨ Recurring Mystic Rectangles through November 27 highlight relationship healing, self-worth, and authentic expression.
Where are you sacrificing your truth to maintain harmony?
Choose compassion without self-abandonment.
buff.ly/yrP5C4b
✨ Recurring Mystic Rectangles through November 27 highlight relationship healing, self-worth, and authentic expression.
Where are you sacrificing your truth to maintain harmony?
Choose compassion without self-abandonment.
buff.ly/yrP5C4b
Hot Topic Dads fic is live!
Giving my perfectionism a giant middle finger & sharing my first #radioapple fic in a half-polished state. Will be tweaking the final version when I post to ao3, but I think it passes muster as is, just in time for ‘ween 🎃
www.tumblr.com/heartfelt-he...
#bambilu
Giving my perfectionism a giant middle finger & sharing my first #radioapple fic in a half-polished state. Will be tweaking the final version when I post to ao3, but I think it passes muster as is, just in time for ‘ween 🎃
www.tumblr.com/heartfelt-he...
#bambilu
November 1, 2026 at 2:37 AM
Hot Topic Dads fic is live!
Giving my perfectionism a giant middle finger & sharing my first #radioapple fic in a half-polished state. Will be tweaking the final version when I post to ao3, but I think it passes muster as is, just in time for ‘ween 🎃
www.tumblr.com/heartfelt-he...
#bambilu
Giving my perfectionism a giant middle finger & sharing my first #radioapple fic in a half-polished state. Will be tweaking the final version when I post to ao3, but I think it passes muster as is, just in time for ‘ween 🎃
www.tumblr.com/heartfelt-he...
#bambilu
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition marked by ongoing emotional dysregulation, unstable self-image, and intense relationship difficulties.
• Fear of abandonment: Extreme efforts to avoid real or perceived separation.
• Fear of abandonment: Extreme efforts to avoid real or perceived separation.
October 28, 2026 at 2:39 PM
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition marked by ongoing emotional dysregulation, unstable self-image, and intense relationship difficulties.
• Fear of abandonment: Extreme efforts to avoid real or perceived separation.
• Fear of abandonment: Extreme efforts to avoid real or perceived separation.
BPD (borderline personality disorder) is a whole other subject that can be a bit hard to condense, but it's a disorder that develops due to trauma and the most common symptoms are avoidance, impulsiveness, unable to keep relationships, fear of abandonment, and a fragile sense of self identity.
October 28, 2026 at 5:34 PM
BPD (borderline personality disorder) is a whole other subject that can be a bit hard to condense, but it's a disorder that develops due to trauma and the most common symptoms are avoidance, impulsiveness, unable to keep relationships, fear of abandonment, and a fragile sense of self identity.
My work against #self-abandonment and #peoplepleasing behavior is something I'm particularly proud of. I'm no longer trying to be who others want me to be. I'm learning & loving who I really am.
#CPTSD #complexPTSD #complextrauma #recovery #healing #healingjourney #babysteps #healthychoices
#CPTSD #complexPTSD #complextrauma #recovery #healing #healingjourney #babysteps #healthychoices
October 30, 2026 at 1:52 PM
My work against #self-abandonment and #peoplepleasing behavior is something I'm particularly proud of. I'm no longer trying to be who others want me to be. I'm learning & loving who I really am.
#CPTSD #complexPTSD #complextrauma #recovery #healing #healingjourney #babysteps #healthychoices
#CPTSD #complexPTSD #complextrauma #recovery #healing #healingjourney #babysteps #healthychoices
Our wounds may explain our behavior.
They don't excuse its consequences.
But taking responsibility for someone else's behavior isn't accountability.
It's self-abandonment.
Can we remain compassionate without losing ourselves?
New on Windshield Time.
youtu.be/FQKC4_GU9zQ
They don't excuse its consequences.
But taking responsibility for someone else's behavior isn't accountability.
It's self-abandonment.
Can we remain compassionate without losing ourselves?
New on Windshield Time.
youtu.be/FQKC4_GU9zQ
November 2, 2026 at 7:54 PM
Our wounds may explain our behavior.
They don't excuse its consequences.
But taking responsibility for someone else's behavior isn't accountability.
It's self-abandonment.
Can we remain compassionate without losing ourselves?
New on Windshield Time.
youtu.be/FQKC4_GU9zQ
They don't excuse its consequences.
But taking responsibility for someone else's behavior isn't accountability.
It's self-abandonment.
Can we remain compassionate without losing ourselves?
New on Windshield Time.
youtu.be/FQKC4_GU9zQ
But doctor Ruth! How do I know the difference between self abandonment and mature compromise…or does that cost extra?
October 29, 2026 at 4:32 PM
But doctor Ruth! How do I know the difference between self abandonment and mature compromise…or does that cost extra?
I diagnose her with abandonment issues and low self esteem aaaaaand sent :)
October 24, 2026 at 11:06 PM
I diagnose her with abandonment issues and low self esteem aaaaaand sent :)
• Fear of abandonment: Extreme efforts to avoid real or perceived separation.
• Unstable relationships: Rapid shifts between idealizing and devaluing friends, family, or partners (known as "splitting").
• Identity disturbance: A shifting or unclear sense of self and personal values.
• Unstable relationships: Rapid shifts between idealizing and devaluing friends, family, or partners (known as "splitting").
• Identity disturbance: A shifting or unclear sense of self and personal values.
October 28, 2026 at 2:39 PM
• Fear of abandonment: Extreme efforts to avoid real or perceived separation.
• Unstable relationships: Rapid shifts between idealizing and devaluing friends, family, or partners (known as "splitting").
• Identity disturbance: A shifting or unclear sense of self and personal values.
• Unstable relationships: Rapid shifts between idealizing and devaluing friends, family, or partners (known as "splitting").
• Identity disturbance: A shifting or unclear sense of self and personal values.