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C.J. Hayden
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Author of nonfiction and memoir. Writing mentor and business coach to self-employed professionals and creatives. Posts on writing, self-efficacy, and how to survive and thrive as a solo pro. More at cjhayden.com
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Author news! In the early 70s, I was a teenage runaway living as an outlaw under several false identities. My #memoir: "Alias Rabbit: Memoir of a Girl on the Run" will be available in Feb 2027. Please join my announcement list for all the details and a special pre-order offer. Link in first comment.
"At some point in every major #writing project... I've gotten to the point where I've felt so exhausted, so stupid, so humiliated that I wanted to quit being a writer… when you reach this point, you're close to a breakthrough. Push through. You can do it." ~ Joe Bunting #writers #quotes
September 17, 2026 at 7:45 AM
You sit down to get a thing done for your business, and that's when it hits you - you don't really know how. What's next? #consulting #coaching #freelancers
Five Quick Solutions to "I Don't Know How" Problems in Your Business - C.J. Hayden
One of the most persistent barriers to the business success of self-employed professionals and creatives is the “I don’t know how” problem. Here’s how it often goes. An expert or a colleague advises you to take some specific action to grow your business: “Collect all your leads in a contact management system” or “Start a […]
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September 15, 2026 at 6:45 AM
"I am not afraid of my truth anymore and I will not omit pieces of me to make you comfortable." ~ Alex Elle This is a mantra for me now that my #memoir is on track for publication in Feb 2027. #AmWritingMemoir #quotes
September 11, 2026 at 5:45 AM
Join me for the next Get It Written Day! On Sept 18, use the power of writing in company to get your important stuff (blog, Substack, book, course, etc.) written. #writing #writers #blogging
Get It Written Day - C.J. Hayden
You’ve got important stuff to write. Blog posts to create, articles to compose, a course to design, a proposal to outline, maybe even a book to write. Your intention may be to build your business, publish your writing, work on a passion project, or further a side hustle. If you’re a self-employed pro, writing may be a sidebar. Or you may be someone who’d like to be writing for a living. But when can you find the time? And what’s in your way? Let us help you get past all that and make writing happen!
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September 9, 2026 at 4:45 AM
It can feel much easier and less confronting to place an ad, pay for a lead gen service, or send out blind emails. But is that "easy way out" really so easy when you don't see results?
How Easy Can Marketing Be? - Get Clients Now!
I often speak to groups of self-employed professionals and creatives about what works and what doesn't to get clients. We talk about the effectiveness of active, relationship-oriented strategies like networking online and in person, building referral partnerships, speaking to groups of potential clients, and following up persistently with interested prospects.
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September 8, 2026 at 3:45 AM
One of Newton's laws of motion says: "A body in motion stays in motion." It turns out that also applies to #writing. #writers #blogging
A Writer in Action Stays in Action - C.J. Hayden
I used to be a scientist once upon a time. A geologist, to be exact. As part of my training, I learned numerous scientific principles, like Newton’s laws of motion, for example. You may remember the one that says: “A body in motion stays in motion.” My science education has often provided insights into issues […]
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September 6, 2026 at 2:45 AM
Without a boss there's no one to make you do stuff you just don't want to do. What can you do about that? #motivation #productivity #goals
Nine Ways to Take Action When You Just Don't Want To - C.J. Hayden
Most self-employed professionals and creatives truly enjoy no longer having to answer to The Boss. But the lack of someone to report to can also be a problem. There’s no one to make you do stuff you just don’t want to do. If you procrastinate about posting to your blog or Substack, resist going to […]
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September 4, 2026 at 1:45 AM
More beta reader feedback on my memoir: "The opening TOTALLY hooked me... In the middle of reading it, I was forced to put it down to take a trip to Minneapolis. I read it on the trains and plane all the way there, and on the plane and trains all the way back... couldn't wait to get back to it."
September 2, 2026 at 12:45 AM
Got something you're avoiding? Find someone to keep you company while you do it. You'll be amazed how much that helps to overcome resistance and procrastination. #motivation #goals #productivity
August 28, 2026 at 10:46 PM
Author news! In the early 70s, I was a teenage runaway living as an outlaw under several false identities. My #memoir: "Alias Rabbit: Memoir of a Girl on the Run" will be available in Feb 2027. Please join my announcement list for all the details and a special pre-order offer. Link in first comment.
August 25, 2026 at 7:02 PM
On #writing: "There is nothing wrong with building into your life some structures that compensate for your weaknesses… We all need a little help." ~ Cary Tennis #writers #quote
August 22, 2026 at 7:45 PM
Wondering if your #writing is good enough isn't a sign of failure; it's a reflection of the desire you have to produce valuable work. #writers #blogging
Self-Doubt? Write It Out! - C.J. Hayden
Joanna Penn is the author of more than forty books, including The Successful Author Mindset. But she has doubts about her writing. I’ve written eight books, dozens of magazine articles, and hundreds of blog posts. And I have doubts about my writing. Both Joanna and I are perfectly normal writers. If you have doubts about […]
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August 20, 2026 at 6:45 PM
When I've had a breakthrough about a project, it's always come at a point of supreme frustration or confusion. That may not be a bad thing. #inspiration #motivation #goals
Breakdowns Can Lead to Breakthroughs - C.J. Hayden
The worst thing that can happen when a self-employed professional or creative is working on an important project — like a book, a course, a design, a website, or a report — is a breakdown. An essential resource is suddenly unavailable. One of your key concepts turns out to be unworkable. Someone you were counting […]
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August 14, 2026 at 4:45 PM
I know you have good intentions about #marketing your business. But it's a good bet you don't always follow through on your plans. #sales #SmallBiz
Three Ways Accountability Will Improve Your Marketing Results - C.J. Hayden
I know you have good intentions about marketing your business. You may even have some sort of marketing plan. But if you’re a typical self-employed professional or creative, you don’t always follow through on the intentions or plans you make. Sometimes you get busy with client work. Paying business is a good thing, of course. […]
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August 12, 2026 at 3:45 PM
Do you struggle to let prospective clients know what you can do for them? If fear, resistance, or the inner critic get in your way, my book Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion can help. #freelancers #coaches #consultants
Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion Book - C.J. Hayden
OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF SELF-PROMOTION Promote Yourself with Confidence as a Self-Employed Professional by C.J. Hayden Available in Paperback, Kindle, PDF or ePub Learn to overcome fear, resistance, and the voice of your inner critic, so you can promote yourself and your business confidently! Hesitation to promote yourself as a self-employed professional, freelancer, consultant, or […]
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August 8, 2026 at 1:45 PM
Another response from a beta reader came in for my #memoir: "Just finished your memoir. I'm totally impressed by your #writing skill, your story, and the way you tell it." Yay me! #amwriting
August 6, 2026 at 12:45 PM
For a host of would-be #writers out there, the muse is something they're waiting for before they start #writing. What if you don't need it? #WritersBlock
Prolific Writers Don't Wait for the Muse - C.J. Hayden
Have you been longing for inspiration to strike before you can write? Or perhaps waiting for a muse to appear? To Merriam-Webster, the muse is “a guiding genius.” Vocabulary.com describes it as “a source of artistic inspiration.” For a host of would-be writers out there, it’s something they’re waiting for before they start writing. But […]
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July 27, 2026 at 10:45 PM
Business slowing down? Summer can be a terrific time to reconnect with contacts. Schedule some video chats or coffees. Email some folks you haven't connected with lately. Take advantage of the slow time so September can be busy. #marketing #sales #SmallBusiness
July 25, 2026 at 9:45 PM