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Many examples of what counts as “abuse” may surprise you.

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Part 3 of 4: Abuse (Relational Contexts of Narcissistic Abuse)
As we expand from interpersonal to systemic scopes of how narcissistic abuse shows up, these forms exist within the family unit. And there's one thing that is often labeled as "abuse" when it's not.
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March 3, 2025 at 3:10 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
Sometimes narcissistic people accuse their targets of being the narcissistic one. How can you tell?
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Am I A Narcissist? (I’m Worried I Might Be)
Are You Questioning Your Own Character? Has Someone Accused You? Here's how you can tell.
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March 15, 2025 at 3:40 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
Four articles on how substances interact with trauma. #narcissisticabuse #complexptsd #cptsdrecovery #narcsbusesurvivor #cptsdhelp #healingjourney #mentalhealth #narcabuse #breakingfree #complextrauma #cannabis #opioids #substanceabuse #addictionrecovery #help

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April 6, 2025 at 6:31 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“…hope can be especially complicated… hoping for healing while simultaneously struggling with the fear of being hurt again…”

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Hope: When Does Having It Help? When Does It Hinder You?
Does hope hold you back or propel you forward? Navigating the delicate balance between healing and harm in the aftermath of narcissistic abuse.
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March 12, 2025 at 2:37 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“…What appears as 'choosing to stay' is actually a series of minute-by-minute decisions made under extreme stress, with incomplete information, and while experiencing active trauma…”
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Part 4 of 4: The Cycle of Abuse (Why Don’t They Just Leave?)
Why do smart, strong people stay in toxic relationships? Is it love, fear, or something even more powerful? The truth is far more complex—and far more heartbreaking—than most realize.
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March 11, 2025 at 3:10 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“The toll of chaos is profound…and…wreaks havoc on the nervous system, leading to anxiety, hypervigilance, and… insomnia, chronic pain, or digestive issues”
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How Do "They" Create Chaos to Control Us?
From personal relationships to political systems, understanding the deliberate use of disorder as a power strategy. Is the chaos in your life random, or by design?
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April 7, 2025 at 2:03 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
If you’ve ever been shut down for raising your voice, here’s a way to know when it’s okay or not. #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #narcissism #verbalabuse #healingjourney #cptsd #cptsdhelp #healingfromabuse #healingresources #suppression #speakup

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When is Yelling Healthy vs. Abusive?
Have you ever been told to quiet down after someone deliberately provoked you? Or had someone justify towering over you and yelling, claiming they were just expressing their feelings?
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March 5, 2025 at 2:53 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
Have we been conditioned to narcissistic abuse on a cultural level? Do we participate? #narissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #cptsd #healingjourney #healinghelp #complextrauma #complexptsd #cptsdhelp #badpolitics #corporatelife #federaljobs #cptsdlife #ptsd ellentift.substack.com/p/part-4-abu...
Part 4 of 4: Abuse- Systemic Narcissistic Abuse (Beyond Individual Relationships)
Have institutions, organizations, or our government conditioned you to accept, normalize, or even participate in abusive behaviors without realizing it? Want to know how?
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March 4, 2025 at 10:52 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“…These periods… keep the victim emotionally invested and hopeful that the relationship can return to the idealized stage…”

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Part 3 of 4: The Cycle of Abuse (When “Good Times” Keep You Trapped)
The cycle of abuse isn’t just about harm—it’s about manipulation, emotional highs, and the powerful chemistry that keeps victims holding on. Here’s why the “good times” aren’t what they seem.
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March 10, 2025 at 1:33 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
Whether their target is one person or a whole nation, their tactics are the same. Find out how to break free. #tyranny #narcissisticabuse #trump #donaldtrump #elonmusk #oligarchy #billionaires #healingjourney #cptsd #CPTSDresources #complextrauma #traumahelp #cptsdhelp

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When Power Corrupts: The Many Faces of Narcissistic Tyranny
From gaslighting in relationships to oppression on a global scale, narcissistic tyranny follows a chillingly predictable pattern. Recognizing these dynamics is the first step toward freedom.
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March 6, 2025 at 4:43 PM
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“…Victims often sense the change before they can name it, feeling the weight of unspoken expectations and the pressure to keep the peace…” Please support me by subscribing.
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Part 2 of 4: The Cycle of Abuse (Walking on Eggshells: When the Tension Becomes the Trap)
You sense the shift before you see it—the unease, the careful steps, the feeling that something is coming. Part 2 unpacks the rising storm in the cycle of abuse.
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March 9, 2025 at 1:36 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“Perhaps the most important skill for becoming your own first responder is learning to speak to yourself with compassion instead.”
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8 Ways to Emotionally Support Yourself When No One Else Does
What can you do when no one is giving you closure, safety, or nurturing? Here are 8 needs trauma survivors have and what you can do to meet them yourself.
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June 27, 2025 at 2:28 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
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People... Ew! When You're One Random Conflict Away from Quitting Society
You know that thing where you have a tense encounter with someone, and then the nauseous replay loops in your head non-stop for days? Let’s discuss how conflict affects people with CPTSD.
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May 16, 2025 at 2:19 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“Medical trauma is uniquely challenging because it occurs in settings meant to provide healing…”

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When the Whole World Feels Unsafe: Understanding Trauma (4 of 4)
How trauma hides in our bodies, faith, and medical experiences—the overlooked wounds that shape our deepest struggles.
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March 23, 2025 at 2:46 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
“…You may feel unable to make long-term plans…focusing on surviving each day…silently wishing that someone…will step in to resolve everything…”
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The Waiting Game: 4 Invisible Things Making Victims Stay
Are You Waiting for a Miracle? Why Trauma Keeps You Stuck in Limbo, and 6 Things That Can Help.
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March 14, 2025 at 2:53 PM
ellentift.bsky.social
How far away is the finish line, if there even is one? #traumahelp #cptsdhelp #cptsdhealing #traumahealing #narcabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #complextrauma #healingjourney

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How Much Can You Heal from Complex Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse?
For survivors of complex PTSD, the healing journey may feel endless. How do you know where you are on the healing continuum and what can you expect?
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March 7, 2025 at 3:00 PM
awkwardashley.bsky.social
How does one cultivate a chosen family when one has no idea what a healthy family system looks or feels like?

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July 27, 2025 at 12:28 AM