Systematic Internalizer (of all *your* profits!)
February 5, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Systematic Internalizer (of all *your* profits!)
A Real Pain does a great job of showing two of the manifestations of generational trauma, the over-controlled and under-controlled person, the internalizer and the externalizer, the person who sits stiffly beside a weeping person, and the person who is a weeper
April 21, 2025 at 1:55 PM
A Real Pain does a great job of showing two of the manifestations of generational trauma, the over-controlled and under-controlled person, the internalizer and the externalizer, the person who sits stiffly beside a weeping person, and the person who is a weeper
A lot of people do this online because they were taught this and everyone becomes either a nitpicking asshole about feelings or becomes an anxious internalizer
Guy to his kid: "You can't be disappointed when [disappointing thing] happens."
The world would be much better if people recognized that you can't argue with an immediate emotional reaction. Notice it, name it, honor it, and then choose how to act. Don't try to just make it go away.
The world would be much better if people recognized that you can't argue with an immediate emotional reaction. Notice it, name it, honor it, and then choose how to act. Don't try to just make it go away.
October 12, 2024 at 2:58 PM
A lot of people do this online because they were taught this and everyone becomes either a nitpicking asshole about feelings or becomes an anxious internalizer
Me, a rationalizer and internalizer who depends on logic and can explain my way to believing anything if it’s negative about myself:
My oracle deck: hey stop fucking listening to your brain and start listening to your heart
Me:
My oracle deck: hey stop fucking listening to your brain and start listening to your heart
Me:
December 27, 2024 at 4:43 AM
Me, a rationalizer and internalizer who depends on logic and can explain my way to believing anything if it’s negative about myself:
My oracle deck: hey stop fucking listening to your brain and start listening to your heart
Me:
My oracle deck: hey stop fucking listening to your brain and start listening to your heart
Me:
I am choosing a side cuz I hate bullies. And I think it’s awful to label a kid as soft for being an emotional internalizer.
January 2, 2025 at 12:59 AM
I am choosing a side cuz I hate bullies. And I think it’s awful to label a kid as soft for being an emotional internalizer.
i am a lover, i am an internalizer. yap and i'll mold it into LSD candy shapes and will swallow them
November 25, 2024 at 12:25 PM
i am a lover, i am an internalizer. yap and i'll mold it into LSD candy shapes and will swallow them
Short temper. Emotional constipation. Chronic internalizer. "Do as I say, not as I do". Fickle temper. Hardly lets things go. /Dangerously/ possessive. The list goes on, really.
#wolqotd
Okay so… what’s your WoL’s red flag now? Be mean about it I wanna know what kinda fucked up stuff they get up to 👀
Okay so… what’s your WoL’s red flag now? Be mean about it I wanna know what kinda fucked up stuff they get up to 👀
March 27, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Short temper. Emotional constipation. Chronic internalizer. "Do as I say, not as I do". Fickle temper. Hardly lets things go. /Dangerously/ possessive. The list goes on, really.
Me too. I am definitely an internalizer.
May 21, 2025 at 4:07 PM
Me too. I am definitely an internalizer.
ah okay, i'm an internalizer. maybe that's the bigger issue.
May 29, 2026 at 5:32 PM
ah okay, i'm an internalizer. maybe that's the bigger issue.
Yeah. I get it. I could also be mind reading. Classic internalizer.
June 29, 2026 at 11:24 PM
Yeah. I get it. I could also be mind reading. Classic internalizer.
I am an internalizer. For internalizers, pain worsens depression & heightens passive suicidality & increases self-harm ideation. If you’re an externalizer, I can absolutely see how it led to the path Luigi took.
i think the kneejerk thing making a lot of normies upset about luigi is that they don't understand how nihilistic it is to have pain and other suffering every single day -- it rewires you emotionally. we all need to acknowledge together that it can make people suicidal at the very least.
December 12, 2024 at 5:50 PM
I am an internalizer. For internalizers, pain worsens depression & heightens passive suicidality & increases self-harm ideation. If you’re an externalizer, I can absolutely see how it led to the path Luigi took.
I just wrapped up reading “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Children” and I am shook to the core. This is me, the litter internalizer. Unconsciously hanging on to childhood coping skill to try to make it through. Trying to mourn what wasn’t but also realize there’s not a redo.
November 29, 2024 at 2:06 AM
I just wrapped up reading “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Children” and I am shook to the core. This is me, the litter internalizer. Unconsciously hanging on to childhood coping skill to try to make it through. Trying to mourn what wasn’t but also realize there’s not a redo.
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November 25, 2025 at 2:20 PM
I’m really good at handling pressure and crisis in these situations because I’m an ✨internalizer✨
May 20, 2026 at 9:27 PM
I’m really good at handling pressure and crisis in these situations because I’m an ✨internalizer✨
Switched gears to a psychology book and damn.... making the connection that being an internalizer means having copious amounts of that base mammal coping instinct to be calmed by proximity to others. Fucked up by society telling you that means you're too needy or dependent. *sigh*
October 7, 2025 at 2:37 PM
Switched gears to a psychology book and damn.... making the connection that being an internalizer means having copious amounts of that base mammal coping instinct to be calmed by proximity to others. Fucked up by society telling you that means you're too needy or dependent. *sigh*
10000% to your second paragraph. im like a pathological internalizer, i had to move away from family before i could start to heal, bittersweet
April 11, 2025 at 5:45 PM
10000% to your second paragraph. im like a pathological internalizer, i had to move away from family before i could start to heal, bittersweet
yo i need to actually find ways to help with the fact that i’m def a PDA autistic and it affects SO much of my daily life (more than i thought) like it’s part of the reason i’m an internalizer and internalize almost everything i think/feel
August 31, 2023 at 6:08 PM
yo i need to actually find ways to help with the fact that i’m def a PDA autistic and it affects SO much of my daily life (more than i thought) like it’s part of the reason i’m an internalizer and internalize almost everything i think/feel
Totally understand this. I’m a major internalizer plus have a degree/worked in the psych field for a bit so while I found cbt helpful for times when I’m in a depressive state, for the most part it isn’t helpful in getting at the deep issues. I found a therapist who uses emotion focused therapy
November 10, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Totally understand this. I’m a major internalizer plus have a degree/worked in the psych field for a bit so while I found cbt helpful for times when I’m in a depressive state, for the most part it isn’t helpful in getting at the deep issues. I found a therapist who uses emotion focused therapy
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Yes, exactly - there are two types of responses to being victimized/traumatized - internalizer or externalizer.
Piggy has stretched the externalize continuum all the way to Moscow and back.
Piggy has stretched the externalize continuum all the way to Moscow and back.
December 30, 2025 at 9:52 PM
Yes, exactly - there are two types of responses to being victimized/traumatized - internalizer or externalizer.
Piggy has stretched the externalize continuum all the way to Moscow and back.
Piggy has stretched the externalize continuum all the way to Moscow and back.
Do you have any siblings, when it got to how one may be an internalizer and the other externalizer, it described us too well.
July 14, 2024 at 9:44 PM
Do you have any siblings, when it got to how one may be an internalizer and the other externalizer, it described us too well.
I never thought about it like that. But yeah, I'm an internalizer when it comes to how I handle pain. Lashing out is always the last thing on my mind.
December 12, 2024 at 6:54 PM
I never thought about it like that. But yeah, I'm an internalizer when it comes to how I handle pain. Lashing out is always the last thing on my mind.