#relationshipanarchy
I know today-me pretty damn well. Five-years-from-now me? Not so much, so I can’t make promises on her behalf.

But I can still talk about the future (sappy stuff included!) without turning it into a contract. Here’s how. 💜

www.labelsarehard.com/p/talking-ab...
#RelationshipAnarchy #polyamory #ENM
How to talk about the future without promising the future
And what forever promises are really reaching for
www.labelsarehard.com
November 8, 2026 at 5:04 PM
You don't have to understand it to respect it. Just leave people be and let them enjoy what they enjoy.

#lgbtqia #lesbian #gay #bisexual #Transgender #queer #intersex #asexual #nonbinary #polyamory #relationshipanarchy #activism
September 12, 2026 at 3:13 PM
September 7, 2026 at 12:23 PM
What I actually commit to, when I'm not promising forever?

This post is my attempt to answer that question, and get into what commitment means to me within Relationship Anarchy.

Curious to hear what it means to you! 💜

www.labelsarehard.com/p/commitment...

#RelationshipAnarchy #polyamory #ENM
What am I committing to in relationship anarchy?
What I actually commit to, when I'm not promising forever
www.labelsarehard.com
September 5, 2026 at 4:09 PM
Gremlin thoughts: the hard feelings that show up in response to someone's actions, even when nobody's done anything wrong.

Wrote up what they are and how to share / receive them. Let me know if it resonates! 🤗

www.labelsarehard.com/p/gremlin-th...
#relationshipAnarchy #polyamory #gremlinThoughts
Gremlin thoughts
When you feel bad and nobody did anything wrong
www.labelsarehard.com
August 20, 2026 at 1:44 PM
Your best friend, your lover, your partner nobody automatically outranks anyone else. You design each relationship from scratch.

Does that sound radical or does it sound like freedom? #relationshipanarchy #relationships
August 14, 2026 at 5:35 AM
@paul Der in r/relationshipanarchy: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationshipanarchy/comments/1nyk727/digital_relationship_anarchy_smorgasbord/

der in r/polyamory wurde noch nicht freigeschaltet. Die Moderator*innen sind da recht scharf.

Und unter dem uralten relationship menu Beitrag […]
Original post on linke.social
linke.social
October 5, 2025 at 10:25 AM
I’ve always been interested in Relationship Anarchy as an AroAceflux person, & this video gives a good explanation of it

#RelationshipAnarchy
#AroAce

youtu.be/AaRBcySCP0M?...
Curious About Relationship Anarchy? Start Here ft. Pat
YouTube video by Queer Collective
youtu.be
July 4, 2025 at 4:11 AM
For me, love without entitlement means dropping the relationship escalator, removing prescriptive hierarchy, & making every connection an intentional and unique choice. Here's a deep dive on my #RelationshipAnarchy framework: www.labelsarehard.com/p/relationsh...

#NonMonogamy #ENM #Relationships
Love without entitlement
My approach to relationship anarchy
www.labelsarehard.com
August 4, 2026 at 3:16 PM
It's SO annoying & lame how as a society we tie social status to being in a relationship

#connection #relationships #platonic #RelationshipAnarchy #SocialNorms
July 24, 2026 at 11:06 AM
#BPDAquariusMusings
#relationshipanarchy
#polyamory
#monogamy

Pages that casually normalize cheating as something inevitable and then scoff at monogamists with fidelity insecurities for “not being able to handle polyamory” stink of toxicity 😷

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June 10, 2026 at 3:46 PM
Hi! I'm AegiBoromir over at #AO3, where I'm currently working on a #HorizonZeroDawn and #HorizonForbiddenWest #fanfiction titled "Her Sky, Her Sea, Her Sun". It's a canon-compliant longfic with #RelationshipAnarchy being one of the central motifs. It starts right after #HorizonBurningShores.
Her Sky, Her Sea, Her Sun - AegiBoromir - Horizon (Video Games) [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
archiveofourown.org
July 15, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Such a good video and she is absolutely right on all of her points.

youtu.be/XExDkGGPIwQ
#polyamory #nonmonogamy #relationships #relationshipanarchy #enm
Important reminder from @Angela Han and she is right.#polyamory #nonmonogamy #Duet #relationships
YouTube video by Polyamorous Heathen
youtu.be
November 12, 2025 at 2:25 PM
Monogamy: “You complete me.”
Polyamory: “We’re both complete, now let’s build a damn empire together.” 👑
#Polyamory #RelationshipAnarchy #Polyam #ENM #ethicalnonmonogamy #findyourpeople
November 8, 2025 at 9:08 AM
Polyamorous dating isn’t easy — not because of jealousy or scheduling, but because most people haven’t unpacked mononormativity yet.
If you’ve ever been someone’s “experiment,” I see you. You’re not alone in this.
#polyamory #ethicalnonmonogamy #solopoly #relationshipanarchy #polyamorous #enm
Polyamory isn’t all date nights and deep talks. It’s unlearning so much and relearning a lot more.
YouTube video by Polyamorous Heathen
youtube.com
November 7, 2025 at 9:07 PM
The breath of subject matter this chick has excellent takes on continues to surprise and impress me. Def highest recommended subscribe for YouTube, and every other channel on that shortlist is longform and specific. Like these are literally the best takes on the Internet
youtube.com/shorts/TkgxA...
Relationship anarchy, nonmonogamy, and possessiveness #relationshipanarchy #polyamory #capitalism
YouTube video by Glass Museum
youtube.com
June 25, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Just in time for Valentines Day. How our mores around love and relationships reinforce systems of oppression. #auspol #post-structuralist #relationshipanarchy #anarchist #loveislove

open.substack.com/pub/dbaxter/...
Valentines Day: Are social mores on love and relationships actually a tool of an oppressive and violent system?
It’s February, the month of love.
open.substack.com
February 13, 2025 at 7:48 AM
anything strays, especially the romance part - which is intentionally lacking in the books THANK GOD - and it's not authentic imo. #sci-fi #marthawells #relationshipanarchy #anticapitalist #anticorp #antislavery #lgbtqia
April 9, 2025 at 6:28 PM
Calendar as colorful as the pride flag, cuz #nonmonogamy & #relationshipanarchy is 2/3 about scheduling
November 16, 2024 at 1:40 PM